In this world there are many kind of people handsome ,pretty and cute .The normal person will necessarily attract to the different sex of him or her .That is impossible if someone have no sense of love to other. Affection to someone cannot be hold or block because it is a feeling that normally happen to a normal person .God has preordination our spouse of life .So we must accept it with an open heart.If I must choose my Mrs.Right I will follow the sunnah from Nabi Muhammad he say choose a women with four condition his property, ethnicity, beauty and religion.So I will follow exactly like he do.
Property.For me I don’t like a rich women.Just a simple girl,have an own job that enough.I not really like a rich women,because her will give me an affliction.Usually,the rich person not wear a brummagem dress.This will wasting the money.I really don’t like the waste person.I more like the person who like to donate because donate will help other person that need our help.By giving some money to a poor person it will cause a thousand problem that they have.
Ethnicity.I don’t really care about it as long her family not involve on crime that enough.Actually the background of the person is important to avoid defamation from community.Defamation will cause the broken of fusion in society.If that happen I will have a sin.Surely as muslim we must avoid sin happen.The good background of person is not mean her father or mother have grade like Datuk or Tan Sri it mean her family does not doing a big crime like adultery, robber,and killer.
Beauty.I like a person with a medium pretty.Her skin is not very white and not very dark.She must have a chubby cheek.Her body shape is not very big and not very thin just nice to hug.I not really like a long hair but her hair is not very short like a man.Her height must lower than me but not to low.Other than that I not very focus on it.Moreover,god have made a person perfectly how’s me to judge the god.
Religion.This conditionn I must focus on it.I like a righteous women with a veil,wear a cloth that cover her aurat and completely 5 time of prayer per day.A person with strong religious is more easy to take care.I don’t need to scold her if she do something wrong because I know she is nice person.She must understand the meaning of tenets of Islamic and tenets of iman because it important to our daily life to deviate from the belief.
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